gossip.

This is on my dad's refrigerator. It is a great reminder.
I've always heard it said, "If you are not part of the problem or the solution, then don't say anything."
Some use this rule liberally and jump at the chance to be part of the "solution".

If you think you can be a part of the solution... then please do so. But when participating in the solution, only talk to those involved and that means no outside "consultation" from others.

Psalm 101:5

"Whoever slanders his neighbor in secret, him will I put to silence;
whoever has haughty eyes and a proud heart, him will I not endure."

Proverbs 17:9

"He who covers over an offense promotes love, but whoever repeats the
matter separates close friends."

Ephesians 4:29

"Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only
what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it
may benefit those who listen."